18months ago my dad was seriously ill, if he had gone home he wouldn't of lasted long. With some persuasion he saw sense and moved into sheltered accommodation. I had a week to clear his old home and fully furnish his new one. I live 250miles away and it was a real strain being away from my children etc I was physically and mentally exhausted by it all. My dad isn't very lovey dovey but there was a moment alone in his new home where he spoke of appreciation for what I had done. I was a little uncomfortable but glad he acknowledged it. I felt relief that he was now being cared for. Now he is much better and independent. His feelings have changed and he regrets moving. He blames me totally for ripping him from his home. Everyone including him agreed that he needed to leave his old environment, there were several things making his health deteriorate which no longer do so because of him moving. I am in agony that he now feels such resentment towards me and there's nothing I can do about it. I know I did the right thing for him but it's horrible to be hated by your own father.
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