Apparently, no matter how ill you are there are only two choices: rehabilitation or a care package at home. MIL is not well enough for either.
Since the end of May she has been admitted to hospital, moved to ambulatory rehab, admitted back to hospital with ascites, sent home with a care package, readmitted to hospital as her GP said she wasn't safe at home and he couldn't look after her there. GP said she would need 6 months to recover and 10 days later (yesterday) the hospital phoned me to say they are trying to get her into rehabilitation again or failing that another care package.
I now assume that if she needs some convalescing then we have to take her out of the system and find somewhere and fund it? Can anyone advise if this is the case otherwise I can see this pattern being repeated. She has refused care packages in the past as recently as April this year. She has cirrhosis, so does not feel very well and isn't eating. DH is an only child, away on a well deserved break, so I am at home waiting for the hospital to ring. My only argument for not sending her home is that the GP needs to be in agreement. Is there anything else I can say?
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rara67 · 03/07/2016 09:16
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