Me again...
DM, who has dementia, was in hospital for 2 weeks as she fell and cracked a bone. After 2 weeks she was shuffling around with a frame so SS deemed her fit to go home with a care package, though I was doubtful. However she seemed to improve physically though still needed help with everything.
After 3 weeks the pain worsened, I took her to GP who said she would get the physio to visit. The next morning the carer found her on the floor crying out in pain. So she's back in hospital and apparently the fracture has opened up more.
To get to my question: when she starts to get better, I suspect SS will again say she can go home with a care package but I think it will just lead to a series of falls and hospital stays until the penny drops. (I have personal experience as exactly this happened to my dmil in the same hospital only months before). What I'd like to to is move her from hospital into respite care and see if a) she gets used to it and stays there or b) gets back to normal mobility and goes home.
If we go against SS advise and put her in a care home obviously it would be self -funded. That is OK as she has a property to sell so she would be self-funding anyway. But what happens when after say 2-3 years her money runs out? Would SS say 'we never said she needed a care home so we're not funding her now.?
To give a complete picture, dm has mixed dementia (about mid-way I'd say), the above mentioned mobility issues, and very poor eyesight (cannot read anymore or see photos). Since her first hospital stay (which sent the dementia into overdrive) she is also afraid of being left alone.
TIA for any advice.
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DM in hospital again - what if she's sent home again?
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ZaZathecat · 12/06/2016 10:28
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