Dads mobility is on a definite down hill plummet at the moment.
When the he moved here/ to the home in May he used a stick but was v wobbly especially when turning. A delta walker produced marked improvement indoors and we wheelchaired him outside but he'd push the chair himself a little too.
Since maybe November he's been walking less well. Falling more - though still " falling well" iyswim!
On Friday he couldn't get out of the chair without a significant boost from me, I wheeled him to the front door as I didn't think he'd make it .
He's now shoving the walker further and further away from him and his shuffly little steps don't keep up. He does not seem to straighten his legs either and telling him to straighten and think tall ,lasts about 2 steps. Getting inthe car is really hard - he's balancing on a bent leg for a start and sometimes even picks the wrong foot up. He wet himself when we got back as we couldn't get him out of the chair and in the loo fast enough.
We have a falls clinic in April - by which time I doubt we will even get him in the car :( we've changed this for an urgent geri appointment. There are no local private geriatricians.
I'd love to hear positive rehab stories, but he's 92 and frail with hearing impairment and dementia with a big language issue- so he doesn't hear/ or proscess instructions to help. I'm scared he's forgetting how to even sequence walking and the less he does the worse it'll get.
Would love to hear " we fixed it with X" but I'm afraid this is it. I don't know how to give him quality of life if we can't get him out for a cuppa or a cheeky prosecco :(
He just sleeps loads now. Apart from eating that's about it. He can. " watch tv" but he can't really. He can't follow plots etc and just sleeps again.
I guess he could spend his money on wheelchair taxis. Maybe that's the answer for a bit..
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Going "off legs" any hope? A sad ramble.
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Helenluvsrob · 21/02/2016 00:36
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