My Dad is very ill, needs a hip replacement and has arthritis, a couple of weeks go my Sister found him a terrible state covered in sores, unkempt and smelling of wee, got the GP and nursing team involved but things are not getting any better.
Last week we spoke to the Adult Social Services team, they didn't go round just phoned him up, we found out later that he had taken a double dose of his pain meds, so when they spoke to him he told them he was fine, was mobile and sounded bright, so ASST told my Sister that there was nothing they could do, 1/2 hour later Dad phoned Sis and said he was in a state and had messed himself and could she go round.
It looks like Dad is lying to the people who can help him as he only wants his family to help him which is my Sister who is 62 with a bad back, I am 200 hundred miles away and can only see him so often.
Obviously as my Dad would be the client the ASST are taking his word over ours.
Dad has no mental health issues, just being bloody stubborn, how can we get SS to override my Dad and get his needs assessed.
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Oldsu · 08/11/2015 13:15
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