.....to put it bluntly, she stinks. she is physically fit and well, but her mental health continues to deteriorate following the death of my father in 2008.
I have never been close to my mother, although she would dearly love to be closer to me, but me, dh, and kids find her very difficult to be around. we don't visit her at home due to the state of it, eg, trodden in poo in the carpet etc
and so, to my problem. my mother does not wash her clothes, and does not wash her body much either. she is smelly and comes to my house for tea each week. I have told her that to sit at my table she has to be clean as it is difficult to eat with such a foul smell there.
I have told her that she will not be welcome for tea next week unless she is clean. she tells me I am being mean, she can't get round to washing herself, and doesn't want to ruin her clothes by washing them
am I being mean. should I just accept her as she is?
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My mother's personal hygiene is getting worse.......
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Gymbob · 06/04/2015 20:36
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