My mum was diagnosed with mixed dementia a few momths ago (Alzheimers/vascular) though I've been taking her to the Memory Clinic for some years as I could see ther was something wrong. On top of this her eyesight is very poor.
Anyway, over the years mum's need for me has increased a lot and instead of taking her out a couple of times a week, I am finding more and more I need to go every day, especially if she is unwell. I also worry when we go on holiday how she will cope.
So we bought a lovely sheltered flat just a mile from me where it will be easy to pop in regularly, my kids can walk there from school and there's a lovely warden etc.
I moved mum in yesterday, and despite me taking care of everything and trying to keep her stress to a minimum, she is terrified of getting lost in the flat, not finding the bathroom in time, not finding her things ( I tried to place all her things in corresponding positions to where they were before), how to use the phones (they are her own and we brought them with her so no change really). She gets up for the toilet in the night and I said 'leave the bathroom light on so you can see where it is' but she'll likely forget.
So I am hoping to get reassurance here: will mum get used to things after a few days/weeks/months, or is she always going to be scared from now on?
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Will mum get used to new flat?
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KikitheKitKat · 14/03/2015 06:32
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