Sorry if this is all a bit incoherent, but I am not really thinking straight at the moment.
My mother has had a fall and is in hospital. The house is uninhabitable (she hasn't let any of us in there for years) and she cannot go back there. And she lives two hours away from me.
I'm going up to see her tomorrow, but if anyone can tell me what I need to know and who I will be dealing with I would be very, very grateful. She has been flagged as a vulnerable adult by the police and has been passed on to their support team, and apparently the hospital will be making referrals.
And I am going to do everything I can, but the thing I am least looking forward to is being disapproved of as a bad daughter by everyone. I can't, couldn't make her do anything, couldn't make her stop drinking or look after herself and she wouldn't change, she was too depressed to. But they are all telling me things - the house was in a far worse state than I knew - like I should have done something about it by now. But how? So if anyone has any psychic armour tips, I'll have those too please.
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tenderbuttons · 29/01/2015 18:53
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