Hi
My parents in law have had bad health issues (strokes, severe Parkinson's) and episodes in and out of hospital, due to the fact that they fall a lot. The last time they insisted on going home, despite the fact they were not coping before (mouldy food, house not well designed for disability etc.)
Against all advice they went home & so my husband arranged for a team of carers (as they live 300 miles away from us & will not move closer). They have now dismissed the carers and are making emotional blackmail comments eg. oh it's my long lost son, your sister has been amazing.... (even though it is only ever my husband that rings them, not the other way round).
My husband works all hours and we have four children - he is completely exhausted. He goes over about once a month, which is what his job, kids, finances allow. He rings them twice a week - but this is never enough.
I rang father in law to point this out, but got a bad reaction. Any advice?
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Littleham · 07/10/2013 14:45
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