Not sure what to do about this really... just want to rant. Mum has been a recluse for about 15 years or so. She used to come out once or twice a year to visit us (voluntarily) but that has stopped now. My Nan lives less than a mile down the road but she hasn't seen her in about three years. When I think about it I realise what a crazy situation it is, we've just become used to it over the years.
She also has arthritis which obviously causes her a lot of discomfort but she doesn't do anything about it. She is quite happy though, and so is my Dad; the issue is that he is in his early eighties and has just been diagnosed with prostate cancer. At the moment he is pretty much her carer but that will no doubt have to change when he gets older. But mum is sooo stubborn and refuses to see that anything's a problem.
Does anyone else have a reclusive parent? How do you cope with it?
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lucysnowe · 25/01/2013 09:57
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