but can't tell us why.
a bit of background...
we live 2hrs away by road, she is in her mid 80s and lives alone.
DD (5yrs old) has ASD (it's become rather more apparent that poor social communication is a very real family trait) which makes us travelling over to see her more and more problematic as she's getting older.
MIL does not like telephone conversations unless it's to convey information (often cuts you off mid-sentence if you start to chit-chat, hangs up as if she hasn't heard) and BIL (who lives locally to her) is pretty much the same.
I think the ASD reference is of high importance here, they are lovely people, but have massive issues in communicating with each other. It's very difficult to get a 2 way conversation from them is what I mean.
MIL rang us last night, to tell DH that she has been to the doctor and he is sending her for a brain scan. She says it's because of her memory. She then said the GP came to her house to see her, but can't remember why she called him in the 1st place.
Earlier this year DH went over to accompany her to a hospital appt which she told him was an op on her eye, it wasn't, it was a consultants appt re her sight. (she has refused the op). She hadn't told BIL about the issue with her eyes as it wasn't anything to do with him...
So. Can anyone tell me anything about why an elderly woman might be having a brain scan? We're not sure how to go about this. DH rang BIL last night, but no answer. He's going to try again today, but isn't very hopeful of getting any information...
MIL has been doing some rather-more-odd-than-usual things lately, but not what I would put down to dementia.
Any ideas, please?
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UnChartered · 10/10/2012 12:55
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