I'm trying to care for my mum, who is in her 90s, still in her own home (her insistence) and she has worsening dementia although it's not officially diagnosed because she refuses to talk to a doctor or social worker. I have joint power of attorney with a sibling but they are difficult to contact, moody and awkward to deal with - so bank accounts are still languishing with charges too high, many bills need sorting etc, but I can't get them to take any action. Also, I feel my mum is too vulnerable and needs extra care, but again my siblings refuse to act. Is there any advice anyone can give me? Is there anything I can do on my own, given that the legal power of attorney is a joint one?
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