My parents are 83&84. Dad great, mum frail. I feel guilty because I am so wrapped up in my life with my 3 young DCs, that I don't really have time for them. I get irritated when they seem to think that dropping everything at 3 in the afternoon to help them out with something that my dad could easily do, resulting in me not getting the kids to one of their clubs etc etc. I know that one day they will be gone & I will feel guilty, but right now I have so much on my plate and they are quite independent really. They only had me, so i really think they have no idea what my life is like. It shocks me every time I see them, when I realise how very old they are. The GP wanted to send my mum to hospital today because her asthma was playing up, but she wouldn't go because she didn't want to go to a geriatric ward.
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bigscarymum · 20/09/2011 22:41
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