Hi, my dd is late June born, she is 4 now and is in nursery since last January. She'll start reception class this January.
I feel she is too young and immature for formal schooling and want to delay her primary school by one year. Can I do that just because I feel it is a good idea?
I am a foreign mum and have no knowledge of UK schools system whatsoever. I have been told, reception class is almost like an extended nursery with lots of play and very gentle learning through play and no teaching reading / writing etc. I am happy with that bit. I do not want to overload her with having to learn to read / write / maths so young. To me it is unnecessary pressure especially when she is so tiny. So I want to delay primary school by one year.
I have been told by her nursery people that she is within the normal parameters for her age. They do not know my child well enough and they never instilled much confidence in me for various reasons. But that's not the issue.
Anyway, we'll start reception and make that decision later in the year according to how reception class goes. But having said that, i feel strongly that I will want one year delay anyway.
Question is, can we repeat reception class again next year? In another school? We'll be moving out of the area in summer so it'll be a perfect new beginning with new school and new set of friends.
If a state school does not accept to accomodate her for a repeat reception class, does a private school accept?
I am a busy working single mum and home schooling is not an option for us.
I keep hearing / reading about Scandinavian system where kids start school at the age of 7 and they out-perform their counterparts in other countries. I am not Scandinavian but in my home country, kids start school at 7 too, and they start learning to read/ write / simple maths then. I am a product of that system and i did well academically. So I have no bad words about it.
What do you think? Thanks in advance...
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I feel dd too young for school, Can we repeat reception twice?
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MyOneAndOnly · 08/10/2009 10:59
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