For instance,
The preschool put on a fun day at end of summer term. It's "always" been a free-of-charge day (bouncy castle, face-painting, entertainer, all paid for out of preschool funds that we the committee raised, preschool is a charity, too).
The committee would like to have some fund-raising stalls there this year... the staff think that some parents really can't afford to pay (20p for a decorated biscuit, etc.), although we are in an average area economically. Why should parents who are very skint be excluded from the fun day?
Staff say that parents will remember it was all free last year, why should they have to pay anything, parents might be annoyed & give staff grief, or slag off the preschool around town -- but the preschool normally has a waiting list, I will have had to wait almost a year to get my dd (now 3) in there. I suppose preschool does have a good reputation, which it does want to protect, or it wouldn't be full at the beginning of the year, every year.
Committee are as annoyed as anything about staff insisting "no stalls". We are running a raffle on the day for certain, at least.
The staff wants to run a big party for the preschool's up-and-coming 30th anniversary. I think staff want a huge school-Fete-like party, licensed, lots of activities, raffle to the public, etc., but the committee thinks that's totally unrealistic.
Problem is that for a while nothing was getting discussed properly when it was first suggested, then the staff think it's a go ahead, now we have to tell them we've changed our minds.
Don't think our committee normally sends anybody to their staff meeting, should we? Is that usual?
It's all so sensitive & political, that's why I started the thread. Is this kind of wrangling normal, inevitable?