I've name changed for this as don't want to discuss finanacial issues under my normal name.
DD starts school tomorrow and I'm seriously nervous and feel I'm going to let her down.
I am split up from DD's dad. She and I live in a 2 bed flat and don't even have a car as I don't drive. Ex DP's dad died last year and left a trust fund for DD's education. There is a LOT of money - easily enough to see her through in private until 18 and probably to pay for a degree course. I was really dubious about the whole thing but when I started looking at the state schoools around here I was appalled so I decided to take the best opportunity I could for DD. Ex DP and I jointly chose her a lovely school. Its all girls, goes from 2 + 6 to 18 and has really good results plus loads of extra curricular activities.
I've gritted my teeth and got the uniform (over ÂŁ200 to my horror) and went to the second hand sale yesterday to top up with a few spares. The mums I met there were really intimidating. None of them seemed to work and they all seemed ot know each other.
Ex DP and I will always make sure DD has the bits and pieces she needs and the trust covers school trips but I'm panicing I've put her into an intimidating situation and that she'll never want to invite friends home. She's going into reception by the way.
Feeling incredibly nervous and could do with some reassurance. I know this is right for DD as I wouldn't send my worst enemy to some of our local state schools let alone my child (one had a stabbing last term and this is primary), another is in special measures and a third has changed head teacher for the second time in 10 months.
Sorry this is so long didn't realise I felt so strongly.
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outofmydepth12 · 03/09/2008 16:47
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