You know how the schools are forever banging the 'healthy eating/exercise' drum- well, what do they do about promoting good mental health? What can WE do as parents? We all know the nuts and bolts of physical health as in what's good to eat, what isn't, that we should take 'x' amount of exercise, not smoking, limiting booze- y'know, all things we rigorously follow...! BUT where are the 'pointers', the bullet-point guidelines for encouraging good mental health?
Are they so vague and fuzzy no one would dare commit them to paper? ARE they different to each individual? IS it because people who do manage to weather the vicissitudes of life have had the benefit of a randomly 'lucky' start which cannot be taught or which cannot be 'repaired' in its absence later? IS it because the ability to 'cope/get on with it/dust yourself down and carry on' is inborn, as in genetic thus cannot be taught?
There was an article in the paper not so long ago where someone suggested we should be teaching resilience in our DCs in school as opposed to the 'softer' skills of empathy and understanding which I know ARE discussed in circle-time in primary schools. He felt, as I recall that too much sympathy/empathy 'teaching' bred a victim mentality in the DCs, in that one's boss wouldn't exude sympathy or empathy if you weren't coping at work- he'd sack you! NOTE to skim readers: I'm not agreeing with this! Just stating it!
What do you all think? I really don't know. I'd imagine it's horses for courses; bright, confident 'leader' DCs could perhaps benefit form some knowledge of empathy; shy, under-confident retiring DCs from some 'get on with it' training.
I guess I'm just alarmed at the sheer numbers of people suffering mental health issues, where their lives are more or less paralysed by panic attacks, excessive anxiety , prescription drug dependencies and so on, who no longer seem to have any handle on the rudder of their lives at all. CAN we as parents or teachers access a tried and tested methodology to try and 'immunise' our DCs as far as possible against this possible destruction of their lives? Or really do we 'only' have the 'weapons' of love and attention to give our DCs?
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How do we (parents and schools) promote mental health? Can it be taught?
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teslagirl · 11/07/2008 10:16
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