i just posted this on another thread, but such is my need for MN comment that i'm starting a new one. help me, experienced mums!
my dd, 2.10, has just started nursery school, three shifts a week. it mostly went fine on day one. i don't want to be neurotic, but there was one thing that was a bit disconcerting. i shadowed dd for an hour, said byebye and left her at the nursery school when she seemed to be involved in an activity with a nice 'teacher'.
came back to pick her up at going home time 2 hrs or so later. all staff told me how good/happy she had been. but dd said, 'I cried.' i mentioned this to a staff member, who said, 'oh yes, she cried a little when we had to come inside from the playground.' now, this didn't sound like my dd -- usually vv keen to get on to next thing. when i asked her why she'd cried, she said, 'I wanted my mummy.'
obv, they don't know her at all, and i'm sure they were just trying to make it easy for me, but it makes me wonder: is my toddler dd more reliable than the people i'm paying to look after her?
is this just one of those things i have to accept? is it worth mentioning this v casually to a staff member when we next go in for a session? just in terms of, don't bother about my feelings, if she has been a bit difficult/sad/naughty whatever, i'd really like to know about it?
i know they're all under a lot of pressure in there and i don't want to get marked down as 'nightmare fussy mum' but i'd rather feel that i really knew what was going on right from the start: i don't want a sanitised version.
i wish an experienced mum would tell me -- am i expecting too much? what would you do?
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is my toddler more reliable than the 'teachers' at her nursery school?
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bakedpotato · 09/09/2004 16:18
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