It is a very good school but it's SO big and ds seems so young ! He is actually young for his age in terms of wordliness etc - pretty much in a world of his own but very bright - quiet and shy with strangers but also self possessed and very chatty and confident once he knows people.
I was just struck yesterday at this school open evening that he seemed totally unready for it all - and yes,I know it's a year + until he goes. I'm getting a bit worried about how to make him more independent (for example when questioned by teachers there he kept deferring to me, so that I felt I had to answer for him) and I know that he is hopeless about things like handling his own money (the school canteen ! how will he cope there!! - he takes so long sorting money in shops that I usually have to give in and help out) and crossing roads etc and getting to school on his own - he is quite cautious about cars etc, which is good in a way, but by being a bit too careful he dithers and that seems to be more dangerous ! Please don't dismiss me as neurotic mum as I really am not, but this is another big milestone looming,like going into yr 3,which at the time seemed a huge transition.
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doughnuts · 28/06/2007 13:52
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