Ds is in Yr2, a bright young man who is excellent at reading, numeracy and good at literacy a lively sociable boy with great imagination.
He has had many little incidents with his TA over the last 2.5 yrs (shes been with his class since Reception), but not sure if I have shrugged this one off without reacting.
As parents, What would you do?
It was lunchtime the kids came in and got their plates. Now the TA usually gives the kids their cutlery, but they were waiting a while. Ds took it upon himself to go and get some knives and forks for him and his friends. As he put his hand in the drawer the TA saw him, came over picked his hand up and slapped him on it and told him to not get the cutlery and go and sit down.
My reaction to ds was that he broke the rules,he should of sat and waited for his cutlery, it is dangerous for him to get the knives and forks and that is why they have to wait for an adult to do it. I do not agree with her reaction, but it was probably a knee jerk reaction I told him that I would discuss it with dp when he got home.
We did and have decided that although ds looked annoyed by it when telling me, he wasn't really upset and crying so we have decided not go to the school on this incident, but dp is convinced that the Ta doesn't like our son, if a similar situation occured then I would not hesistate to go to the Head Teacher.
But now, not sure if our reaction is the right one. I am not one to go all guns blazing and argue with the teachers at the school, but I am no push over too and am wondering whether I should go to the school or not.
What do you think, if it was your child what would you do ?
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TA slapped my son's hand...... What would you do ??
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moosh · 22/05/2007 13:49
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