Hi! I’m 19 and I’m not a mum but I am a big sister to a 7 year old boy and I really need some advice from parents! So I’ve come here :-) Okay, so first of all, In your opinion do you guys think that 7 year olds are still classed as being ‘little’?? And do you think that a 7 year old is old enough to make the decision on whether they want to or should go to school?? In my opinion, a 7 year old isn’t little anymore! They’re a fully grown child! (Maybe not height wise but you know what I mean!) My lil bro who will be 7 next month is currently ‘homeschooled’ but he reeeeaaaally wants to go to real school! (If he was in school now then he would be in Year 2 btw as his birthday is in November!) But my parents don’t think that he’s old enough to make that decision yet and they said that they’re not gunna let him decide until it’s time for him to go to high school! But he’ll only be like 10/11 then which in my opinion isn’t much different then being 7 mentality wise! You’re just as aware at 7 as you are at 10/11. You just know and understand and few more things at 10/11! And when I was 7 I definitely knew whether I wanted to be in school or not and whether I should be at school or not! 😐😐 Like I said before, my parents don’t think that my lil bro Is old enough to decide on whether he should go to school or not and they both really hate the school system and to be honest I do agree that it’s quite flawed and some changes are definitely needed but in all honesty I don’t think it’s actually that bad and hey I survived through it! And they both just hate school in general because of what I had to go though and still kind of have to go through now with College! (I have Dyspraxia, Autism and Major Anxiety so as you can imagine my life has been quite the struggle and it’s just been one big fight academically!) But my brother isn’t like me! He hasn’t got disabilities like me and he’s incredibly social unlike me who is as quiet as a mouse! Everyone’s school experience is different anyway! They won’t really even let me or my bro talk about school and they always just immediately say no to my bro when he asks about it and now he doesn’t even bother asking anymore as he just knows the answer now and they immediately get annoyed and just don’t want to listen when school is brought up! (Which is now making my parents think that he doesn’t want to go to real school anymore because he’s not saying anything to them!) Even I don’t talk to my parents about a lot of things anymore coz I know what they’ll say and I know that they’ll probably moan at me! It’s been like that ever since I can remember! They are really loving and caring and supporting parents though and I’m incredibly grateful to have them! :-) But anyway, They’re basically forcing him to be homeschooled until High school! And I feel really sorry for him because he’s just so bored all the time at home and he’a always building schools on Minecraft and he literally always comes into my room so he can go on my Xbox basically leaving me with no privacy or personal space anymore! (I love my brother to death but I absolutely hate our age difference! But that’s a whole other story) So yea anyway, my brother is technically not in education right now despite being 7 years old............... I mean he’s technically homeschooled but my parents aren’t even really teaching him anything! They just tell him to go on the computer and go on reading eggs! (An educational English and Maths website for primary school age kids) So they basically just leave him to teach himself................ And even with that he only does it occasionally as he refuses to do it most of the time! He can’t take anything like that seriously when he’s at home as I’m pretty sure most kids can’t! I was homeschooled for about 2 and a half years during high school (Year 8 except the first term until Year 10) because of bullying and stuff I couldn’t take anything seriously either! And homeschooling in general just didn’t really work out for me and it was honestly more just like a much needed almost 2 year break from school for me! But my lil bro literally just plays video games all day when he should be in education and actually learning things! :| Plus, my parents are always busy with work and stuff so I don’t really get how they think homeschooling my brother is even gunna work? He does go to Forrest School but it’s only one day a week and it’s more just educational outdoorsy stuff then normal education stuff. He can’t read, spell or do basic maths yet and he won’t even wipe his own butt after he poops........... I feel like he’s so behind on everything and I’m honestly worried about him! :/ The School topic has been a constant battle in this house and I’m honestly getting really sick of it now and I wish they’d just send him to school or at least just try it and give it a chance! 😕😕 Do you think my parents are being fair? Because I don’t think that they are at all! 😐😐
So any advice on how I can persuade my parents to send my lil bro to school or on anything else that I’ve mentioned here would be greatly appreciated!
Thank you so much for taking the time to read this absolute mess of a paragraph and I’m sorry it’s so long!! 😂😂
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Imalostpenguin · 06/10/2017 18:27
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