My DD, 16, is an able girl who has lost half of her GCSEs this year due to an unholy combination of bullying at school and the severe depression/anxiety it has pushed her into. It's been an ongoing situation for years and her school has been alternately supportive and indifferent. When they have been (verbally) supportive we have stuck with them, believing that they had both a will to help solve a situation which they had created and the inventiveness to do so. She never wanted to leave there in spite of the bullying, which has been extreme, as she had faith in her teachers' faith in her. As GCSEs approach I'm not so sure. They're incredibly busy trying to funnel 250 young people through the academic gates, DD's lack of self-esteem is severely holding her back, and it is very easy not to notice her. We talk regularly as they have been supporting her back into school after a long period of absence due to her depression/anxiety and although individual teachers are sympathetic and supportive there is a lack of co-ordination to help her get the grades she's capable of. She started Year 10 with 11 GCSE subjects, has had to drop six of them and it is by no means certain that she will acquit herself well in the remainder in June. This is not because she's not capable but because she hasn't been taught. In hindsight we should have moved schools in year 9 and I blame myself daily for not doing so but we are where we are. The question now is what to do if the GCSEs go tits up. She's an able girl - used to getting As and Bs until this whole sorry story started - but she won't get into her own school Sixth Form without 5 Cs/4s, or any other local one either to continue with her 16+ education. The idea of settling for less than she's always wanted (A levels and uni) depresses her more and the more depressed she is the harder she finds it to work and so the vicious circle continues. Does the MN hive mind have any thoughts...?
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Bullying and depression/anxiety are robbing my DD of her GCSE hopes - creative solutions required...
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Scout63 · 28/03/2017 06:36
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