Hello, this is my first post on Mumsnet.
We recently moved to the city I grew up in. We have moved around the corner from the school I went to 6th form in (private, all girls.) My daughter is 4 and in the nursery and is due to start primary school in August 2017.
She's not settled particularly well and I am not entirely inspired by the school despite having had an excellent experience myself - which was quite a long time ago. I'm concerned it's a bit precious and rareified and I don't exactly fit in with the parents who are all a lot richer than we are. I'm the only mum who works full time and I feel excluded from a lot of the activities which are during the day.
My daughter is picking up on a lot of bad behaviour from the other children and being obnoxious in a way she hasn't been before. I'm also worried that they have a bit of a model to conform to and that there is quite a lot of pressure to fit the mold.
The pros are small class sizes, excellent facilities, beautiful classrooms, playing fields, lots of sport, wrap around care, and a community around the corner that my only child could become part of for life. But I am worried that it's not right for her.
It is enrolment time for the local primary school. It's 'satisfactory' and 'good' in the inspection report and we went to visit it today. It was scruffy and the playground and classrooms were a bit depressing, but the children seemed happy and there was a lot of talk about the community, children helping each other, and the children who took us on the tour were really articulate and had a great sense of humour.
The thing is I'm not completely sold on either of these options for my daughter. I know many parents probably feel like this but I am trying to find a solution that caters to her needs - she is bright, needs to be challenged, needs to feel included, is impulsive to the point of recklessness, can be disruptive... I want her to grow up with a good sense of the world feel she can do anything she wants, but also to be kind to people, be thoughtful of others' needs and understand that not everyone is as lucky as she is.
Taking money out of the equation I just don't know what I should do. Should I look at other private schools or send her to the local school and play it by ear? Or keep her where she is and hope she settles into it? I'm keeping my own emotional connection to the school out of it as well - because it was a school that changed my life it doesn't necessarily mean it is the best place for her.
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Primary school options driving me crazy
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Sohardtochooseausername · 02/11/2016 14:10
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