This is really preying on my mind at the moment...baby number 2 due Oct 12th, dd due to start nursery in September (she'll be 2 + 9 months). Dd currently goes to a childminder and to a toddler group. She is a very social and friendly girl, BUT she has huge problems actually separating from me, almost always cries as I leave her at the childminders, hates talking about it when she's at home, doesn't like any kind of change at all. As soon as I have disappeared from sight she is fine, stops crying and is happy for the rest of the time, goes to toddlers happily with the childminder etc. Because of her difficulty with separation/change I am beginning to dread the start of nursery coming so close to the birth of a new baby. Do you think it would be better to start her in September (hopefully ) 3 weeks before baby 2 is born, or should I defer entry until January? The nursery is hassling me (gently, but still hassling) to decide asap.
I know this is a difficult one to answer as no-one knows how dd will be in 4 months time, but advice much appreciated. Thanks.
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New baby due - shall I start dd at nursery in September or January?
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Enid · 29/05/2002 21:48
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