Following on from my post last month about DS's lack of motivation & enthusiasm for 11+ prep, his tutor has just told us that she doesn't feel he will pass the test & advised us to start considering alternative secondary schools. Looking over the work he's been doing including some practise papers over Easter, I don't disagree and was the one asking for the update as I too had doubts but still, it is quite hard to be told your child isn't as bright as you (& he) previously thought!
Anyway, I know DS will want to keep going as all his friends are doing tutoring and/or fairly intensive coaching at home and foolishly we've been bigging-up the grammar in an attempt to motivate him with 11+ prep work so of course he's got his heart set on a particular school .
Do we stand firm and say no he can't sit the test or stop the tutoring but let him do it and deal with the consequences of a fail? Unfortunately we have no idea which school he'll end up at so can't even rave about the comprehensive alternatives!
Any advice?
uplifting stories of your DC passing the 11+ against all odds and then thriving at grammar selfish but appreciated
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Tutor advised we stop 11+ tutoring.
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PhoebeMcPeePee · 16/04/2016 18:32
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