What to expect when asking for bursary in Reception?(54 Posts)
I have recently realised we are 0.6 miles out of catchment for the local comp that we were planning to send DS to. Sadly the only other option is dire and further away (under subscribed). We are in a grammar area and they only had 2 people pass the 11+ last year! They are the 'troubled kids school' and over 2 miles walk away.
Realising this I have decided to look into bursaries for a local Indie school that is practically on our doorstep. It gets 98% pupils to pass 11+ which would mean I would only have to pay private for Junior and we wouldn't be a burden on the bursary for Seniors.
Financially I own our house outright but only bring in around £1700pm as a landlord, which won't be enough to cover the £3k termly costs.
When DS is old enough to be in full time school I will be happy to work on top of this and probably bring in another £1k pm (assuming I will need flexi-hours to collect him and so a smaller salary than I used to have).
I am a single parent and DS's dad now pays only £27.00 pm for maintenance (long story and needless to say it's not reflective of his actual wage). The main issue with this is that I don't feel I can work until DS is in school every day for a full day as I have no other child support.
I have sold my car and given up driving due to the financial pressures we are now under as a twosome and I am loathe to remortgage a house I worked so hard to clear, but I am aware this may be something the school would ask me to do. I just don't know how I would pay that back monthly on top of my salary going towards school fees!
Am I just being completely naive in thinking this is an option for DS? What other sacrifices can I make to ensure he gets a decent education? I have considered moving but I don't want to uproot either of us from friends who have supported us so much over the last 3 years.
Planning ahead is good but I think you are panicking a bit given your child's age.
You have no idea if your child will be able to do the 11+ yet and just because the private school gets good results there's no guarantees.
Also,you say you don't want a mortgage - I doubt anyone does but some of us just have to have one.
A better option would be to send your child to the best state Primary possible and save like mad and get an 11+ tutor from age 9 or 10.
That way your child stands a better chance of getting into the Grammar ( assuming it exists by then) and if not you might be able to pay for private and/or get a Bursary.
I was merely trying to gauge what the situation was with bursaries and not thinking particularly clearly.
If she is to start in reception they will take her from this Sept so no idea how late I am meant to leave it to keep people happy!
I have confirmed I will be re-mortgaging the house and working. If I need to move when she is 11 then so be it. That is a very long way off.
I won't be asking about a bursary now as I won't need it, so I don't think I need to come back any more!
Thank you for all of the advice.
Hello, I've just discovered your thread and just wondered if you had anything resolved now? x
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