We are quite a way off yet, but are considering schooling options for our son. Our daughter attends a local girls indie (prep school) and there are a large number of girls secondary options locally to us for what ever type of child she turns out to be in a few years time. However, there is very little by way of boys or co-ed prep schools which we feel would suit our son and almost nothing at secondary level locally (unless he turns out to be über bright - not impossible but we won't count our chickens just yet!).
We are therefore considering a more traditional prep school starting at 7 or 8 with a view to him attending a public school for secondary. Of course this has the caveat that the schools would have to be right for him and his personality. We are not in the habit of throwing our money away for no good reason, it would have to offer him the right education etc. We are lucky that there is a good state infants school locally, which he is likely to get a place at and all the children move from there to other schools at 7 so it is a natural breaking point for him.
The concern I have with this plan is that we do not live in a big house (nice sized 3 bed detached in a good area) we don't drive flash cars etc and although we do enjoy lovely holidays they are alternate years. We would not be eligible for a bursery as we own other properties and they (in part) will be funding his education. We have "professional" jobs that pay well and we are careful with what we earn.
My question is this (if anyone has braved reading thus far). Will he be a fish out of water in these schools? Will he be teased for a small house etc? I would hate to put him in an environment whereby his worth was not judged on his own merits but that he didn't live in the right place or mummy and daddy didn't have good enough jobs! I don't want to spend time and energy researching and visiting schools etc if the ethos will make him an outsider from the start.
Please don't turn this into a "state vs private" thread, I know all of those arguments (being state educated ourselves) but genuinely want advice on if I am "barking up the wrong tree" so to speak
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JammieMummy · 04/08/2013 16:05
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