We sent her older sister in year 5 and it was a big success, she had not been getting on well at her state school. She is now in year 9 at the senior part of the school - again - big success, she's like a different child, couldn't ask for more etc etc.
Because dd1 had done so well there we decided to scrape together the cash and send dd2 in year 5. I am beginning to wish we hadnt. The money is now my all-consuming thought and it is making me so bloody stressed. We can JUST about afford it (although ds is definitely staying at his good state primary for as long as possible - can't see any way of moving him in the next few years) but it means watching every penny and, to be brutally honest, I just don't see the benefits of it for her. She's been there a year (about to enter yr 6) and although it is a lovely school with some really good teachers, the music and sport is good too, but I regret not keeping her at her state primary which was fine and just 'topping up' with music and sports out of school. Academically she hasn't improved as much as we thought she might (she's pretty bright) AND a lot of girls in her class are very, very well off (stately homes) which often makes her feel inferior :-( (dd1 NEVER had that feeling for some reason, just different personalities I guess).
Anyone else done it and regretted it? It actually makes me feel sick. Dh also permanently stressed about money but he is more keen that they have a private education (he did, I didnt).
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Bristowlian · 14/08/2012 17:13
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