Thanks for your thoughts @19lottie82.
Your problem, if you wanted to cover yourself then you should have sent it recorded delivery
Tbh, I’ve never had a problem before now - with any online return via post, not just ebay. They gave me a Freepost returns address, I added Proof of Posting and thought even that would be overkill*. It’s a fair point but everyone has to weigh up the cost:risk of shelling out for recorded vs the low likelihood of it going missing (it was clearly addressed and had my return information on it as well).
A return request won't do any good anyway as you will need to prove delivery
The seller was the one who explicitly told me to open a case (to say the return I had sent had not been received by them), I was just doing as they asked. I assumed at the time it was just “virtual paperwork” for them to keep track of their various customer contacts. Ditto when they said to call ebay customer services when I couldn’t open the case online.
anyway eBay won't get involved if it's over 30 days after the latest delivery estimate.
I know that now and it is what I told the seller when I updated them. They sounded surprised by that (which you would think a pro seller with a substantial ebay business would know).
I don't see why the seller should bear a goodwill gesture here and be out of pocket?
I wasn’t saying they absolutely should do anything, I just thought offering an £8 replacement item might be a nice gesture/show of customer service after they sent me round the houses with trying to open cases; and then asking me to phone ebay (you knew that was pointless straightaway so it’s reasonable to think they should have as well?); and also with me having to chase them up and down to confirm if they had received my item after I (also proactively) confirmed I had sent it and they should expect it.
Just put in a claim with Royal Mail and no one loses out......
Yes I am going to, as per my OP. I also said to the seller that they may want to contact RM themselves, as if their mail is not being delivered and they are paying for Freepost, that is not on for them either.
(As I say, it’s not the end of the world and I will just buy a replacement, but it won’t be with them. I’m sure they’ll cope with the tragedy of losing a customer )
- googling now I see there are "ex PO workers" claiming on various consumer fora that you can't even add recorded to Freepost addresses, but there are contradictory posts saying you can, so who knows!