Buyer wants me to cancel her bid, how does that work?

[trickyex]

No reason given and no please/thank you, just several messages to say she needs to cancel the bid, that ebay say its for me to do this and then another message asking if I am refusing to cancel the bid as I havent yet replied (busy putting DSs to bed!).
Can anyone advise me what to do?
TIA

[lazymongoose]

The buyer can do themselves in eBay settings, I have done it myself a couple of times. It isn't up to you, tell them to have a look in settings

[StillSeekingResponsibleAdult]

If you cancel the bid as a seller, you still might have to pay eBay fees, the buyer needs to cancel.

[trickyex]

Thanks will tell her, have a feeling she is a tricky one from her last message (rather aggressive!).
Gah

[Laska5772]

the bidder cant cancel in the last 12 hrs so you will need to do it if you want to sell .. (best to or you may get a non payer.. if you do cancle then the previous bidder will win , and at least you will sell the item

[trickyex]

The auction ends on sunday in fact.