Hi everyone. I've posted before. I am still struggling somewhat and I have come to an agreement with myself that I will eat at home.
I might eat at Cafe Nero if I'm with my family.
This means I have breakfast (today a hot cross bun and cup of tea) and then eat when I get home from work. This can be 4ish or 7ish if my sons are being ferried to clubs. I will drink tea or coffee at work and eat an apple if I feel faint or dizzy.
I am a teacher. There is a teacher in my department who notices that I do not eat. I vary where I spend lunch times so it is not obvious to any one person that I do not eat at work. But I had a headache before an evening at school a while back and she tried to convince me to eat a doughnut, and I absolutely couldn't so I compromised with a piece of fruit. On this occasion she said she noticed I was looking thin and she expressed concern. Since, she has made a few (harmless comments) like, "FennyBridges aren't you having lunch?" I suppose it happens once a week but I know she looks for me to be eating.
I wondered whether I should bring my eating disorder up with her and explain that whilst I am struggling, I am dealing with it and this means I cannot always manage eating at work. Not give any history or any cause for concern, but I am trying to deal with it by eating when I return home and before I leave for work.
I try to hit about 1000 calories a day. I am trying.
Would it be acceptable, in your opinion, to say something like that to a colleague? We are all friendly and would probably socialise if our marking load, or our own children, were easier. We care about each other. But I obviously don't want any repercussions; either professionally or with gossip.
If it helps, I think I can trust her and my bmi is not low enough to cause concern (19 something.)
Thank you.
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FennyBridges · 23/03/2018 18:06
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