My ds1 was born with iugr this wasn't picked up till 39 weeks, he is now nearly 13 years and has never caught up in size. Always smallest and thinnest at school, our family have always said 'oh he's like his dad' as he's slim.
In year 6 ds1 was no longer on the weight or height chart, but 6 months ago was right at the bottom only just on it. In primary school he use to hide his sandwiches in his bag saying he wasn't hungry or would say he had eat them and I would find them hidden. I instead paid for school meals at secondary school to try to get him to eat. He hasnt eaten breakfast for 2 years now as not hungry and from the history of his meals he does spend up to £3 at school each day on food and drinks but obviously I don't know 100% if he eats it or his friends.
Since Christmas he has started to spend an hour at evening meals eating his tea. Picking at meals with his fingers eating tiny mouse sized bites.
It's hard to see if he's lost weight as he is skin and bones and if I start weighing him he'll want to know why. I took him to the Drs about 6 months ago and they said he was fine and not to worry. I watched him eat a sandwich today as he's off school as had tummy pains (dh let him off) he inspected the sandwich before eating and wiped any excess butter on the plate. Am I over thinking or could this be more than it appears. I've not mentioned it to dh yet.
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Eating disorders
Eating disorder or fussy eater 12 yr old
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Butterflies27 · 08/02/2017 12:38
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