@Eiremogra
Hi all,I’m at the very beginning stages of checking our ED options in Spain. This thread is super helpful! Due to my low AMH my consultant has advised we consider ED and forget about IVF (have had 1 failed round). I’m still ‘processing’ that info…unsure if I should give it one last try with my own eggs. I haven’t had any consultation with the Spanish clinics as yet but was hoping to discuss this as an option with them and if the opinion is repeated re: ED then I would happily go with that. So many questions running through my head!x
@Eiremogra I completely get what you mean by 'processing' the recommendation to go for ED. After my second IVF cycle in the UK, I booked initial appointments with several clinics across Europe and the first appointment was with UR Vistahermosa. The coordinator was lovely and told me that she booked me in with the Clinic Director, who was a very experienced doctor. I had high hopes for that consultation, only to realise that he focused on the fact that I had two 'failed' IVF cycles in the UK and, out of 15 eggs retrieved in both cycles, only got pregnant once. Based on that logic, my chances of getting pregnant with my own eggs were low and I should consider egg donation. I was 39 at the time and thought that it was a rushed decision to move to ED without giving another go with my own eggs.
I then had consultations with nine other clinics and wasn't recommended ED once. When I asked about ED, all the other consultants told me that, even though I had a miscarriage in my last cycle, the outcome was positive with two grade A blastocysts out of six eggs.
You're absolutely right in getting a second, third, fourth opinion before deciding the best course of treatment for you. I discuss ED in my counselling and have come to the realisation that I will be happy to move to it if my third IVF cycle fails. It is important to establish a limit. Discussing ED in my counselling also made me realise that I want my future children through ED to be able to identify who their donor is when they turn 16, which is possible to do if you go through treatment in Portugal, but not in Spain. There's a lot to consider in these decisions, but the bottom line is that counselling is paramount!
I wish you the best of luck in your treatment and know that you'll have your baby in your arms soon, regardless of the treatment choice you make.