I am desperate to have another child. In a new relationship with someone who already has 2 and doesn't want more in the next few years.
I have known fertility issues so unlikely to have a happy (in my case - not his) accident
Really have no idea if the relationship would survive long term yet. I'd like it to but I honestly don't know if I can give up altogether on more children
I have one school age DD and I'm 35
No idea on the costs but considering if I should look into egg preservation?
Or if I should go full whack and start looking into donor sperm and either IUI or IVF?
As my partner doesn't use any protection (withdraws) there's a tiny part of me that wonders about just asking for clomid but I think that's broodiness talking and would probably end a relationship in reality and be a terrible thing to do? I have a battle in my head about the fact that he chooses not to use protection yet doesn't actually want to get me pregnant when someone else would possibly easily get pregnant from him... and a fair bit of resentment that he already has what I want
Not sure if my relationship would survive me using another donor sperm and having treatment but I might raise the idea with him to see what he'd react like as we don't live together, not married etc so it's more or less still a "dating" relationship
I do however hope it will survive and he makes me really happy so I don't want to just end things unless I have no other alternative
Anyone about to talk it over with?
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