Hello, I am brand new.
Well I have been lurking for a while on fertility board, but I have just joined!
My wife and I are about to start our first cycle of IVF. We are using donor sperm and have done lots of thinking and talking about how we will talk to our child (if we are lucky enough to have one) about their genetic story and roots and how they were made. I guess we will handle things as they come up, and I feel pretty confident we will be able to do that, but it would be so lovely to hear a bit from parents of children made with donor sperm or eggs about how these conversations have panned out, what sort of questions their children had at what ages, and whether they have any advice of how to think about this sort of communication.
We are especially thinking about the fact that when our future-child turns 18, they will be able to access donor information, and we are wondering how best to prepare them for that and to support them through the choice of doing it/not doing it etc. I know this is all a long way in advance, but I'd love to hear other peoples thoughts and experiences about their plans in relation to the big 18-anonymity question, how their children feel or what their children ask or whether, in fact, it doesn't interest or bother them at all!
Thanks so much and looking forward to chatting on here,
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SpottieOttie · 01/08/2016 15:21
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