I am having to take my ex to court over changing the current arrangements for contact with DD who is 5 this month as they just aren't working for her. He has refused mediation.
Can anyone give examples of patterns that have worked for them with a 5 year old please?
Currently it is Tuesday, Wednesday and Saturday nights with me. Monday, Thursday and Friday nights with him with alternating Sunday nights.
I was originally thinking Wednesday, Thursday and Friday nights with me then Sunday, Monday and Tuesday nights with him and alternating Saturday night. But someone has pointed out that part of the problem may be the moving around on school nights.
The only other options I can then think to offer are alternating weeks but not sure if this would then be too much of a change for her, or weekdays with me and then alternating weekends. Which I know would stand less of a chance but in the days she is with him during the week she is mostly cared for by his father while he is in work so she only sees him for about any hour really.
Any thoughts and experiences would be very helpful thank you
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ISolemnlySwearIAmUpToNoGood · 01/03/2021 13:46
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