Trying to help a friend going through a difficult divorce.
Finances are all sorted, house sold, no kids involved. He left her for a younger woman.
He has sent papers to her even though she had said she would divorce him. He’s gone for unreasonable behaviour and has listed 2 pages of reasons, some going back as far as the start of their 20 odd year marriage, it’s all very strange.
She doesn’t want to sign them because they are so outrageous, twisted half truths and some downright lies.
My worry is she will spend money she doesn’t need to spend and it won’t get her anywhere. I can’t understand why she doesn’t want to sign, but she does want to be rid of him. She is hurting, the whole thing blindsided her and this is just another kick in the teeth.
Can she ignore it? Contest it? Agree to divorce but not to the reasons?
Thank you in advance.
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Reasons given are lies- what next?
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Bepawsome · 26/02/2021 22:31
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