I want to separate from my husband as find out very unpleasant information last week so was really upset but now doing my research on possible options before main conversation. He is got anger management issue so it is going to be "hard brexit" for me so I am preparing mentally and financially. We have 7 ye child and absolute zero childcare except the paid one, we both work full time but of course his job is more important (as he been saying to me for years) so he never been involved in dropping/picking our kid to nursery and school and holiday clubs. During these years he never did any chores at home as well so was concentrated on his carrier while I had to sacrifice a lot of good job opportunities as had to work around nursery/breakfast/afterschool hours and distance. Now he is high earner so I will need to discuss child maintenance while separating. My question is so CM meant to cover all costs or not? I know how it is calculated but wondering why would I pay all childcare if he refuses to look after our child during school holidays at all, not mention breakfast and afterschool club costs. I am trying to find a ground of negotiations with him so what is your thoughts to it?
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