My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

Here you'll find divorce help and support from other Mners. For legal advice, you may find Advice Now guides useful.

Divorce/separation

2yr separation, what if he disputes?

7 replies

ImFree2doasiwant · 21/08/2020 15:38

It's coming up for 3 yrs since my husband moved out. We have not started divorce proceedings. He's told me he has, then not done it. I thought it would be better and nicer all round to wait 2 yrs then do it based on separation. Given that he's not started it himself, I'm going to, but wondering what will happen if he doesn't consent. Clearly then it can't go ahead. Does it look bad on me if I do it under unreasonable behaviour at that stage?

I was hoping to do the divorce myself, and use a solicitor forthe financial settlement, but it's looking increasingly likely I'll need to use a solicitor for all of it I think

OP posts:
Report
YorkshireTeaIsTheBest · 21/08/2020 15:41

I'd file the papers online make it more tempting -say I'll cover the £550 so you can move on etc and we can be friendly and apply for it
www.gov.uk/divorce/file-for-divorce

Report
ImFree2doasiwant · 21/08/2020 15:47

Thats what i was hoping to do, but I'm .not sure he wants to move, that's the problem.

OP posts:
Report
ImFree2doasiwant · 24/08/2020 01:26

Does anyone know the answer to this please? If he disputes the 2 yr separation, or doesn't consent, can I try again under unreasonable behaviour?

OP posts:
Report
MooseBeTimeForSummer · 24/08/2020 01:40

How could he dispute it if he moved out?

Report
ImFree2doasiwant · 24/08/2020 10:06

He needs to agree to the divorce if it's under the 2yr ground.

OP posts:
Report
Houseorflat · 01/09/2020 22:16

Yes if he doesn’t consent you can refile under UB but you may have to pay again, that’s the part I’m unsure of. So if in doubt go for UB from the beginning

Report
Houseorflat · 01/09/2020 22:17

@ImFree2doasiwant

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.