Husband and I have recently separated and I am in the very early stages of thinking about making preparations with regard to the divorce, house and finances.
For the past 8 years I have worked part time whilst I raise the DC and tried to be as much of a full time mum as possible at the same time as working. Luckily my job is flexible and during term time this has meant I have been able to work during school hours, enabling me to also do all drop offs, pick ups, play dates, clubs, meals, etc.
Now that I have become a single parent, I need to work full time to ensure I earn enough for myself and the DC. I work in a professional career and my potential earnings are greater than my STBXH, but he has earned more than me over the last few years because I've been part time whilst he's worked full time.
In terms of my own finances, is it better to hold off getting a full time job before settling on an agreement for our divorce? I have made career sacrifices to raise our DC and am not sure if this means I will be entitled to more of the house if I still earn less than him at the time of our divorce. Does anyone have any advice or experience of this? As much as I need to earn more, I can hold off in the short term if it means I get more in the longer term.
I hope this all makes sense. Everything is still very new and raw, and I haven't had much sleep this week. Happy to clarify anything if needed though.
Thank you in advance for any advice.
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lemurllama · 09/08/2020 13:01
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