I have been married for 10 years. I met DH at 19, got pregnant a few months later and married not long after. We now have two kids. I haven’t been happy since 2014 but keep telling myself to stick with it just one more year. DH is not a bad person, he is much nicer than me. But our relationship is built on the fact that we are parents, something that is becoming painfully obvious as our boys get older. We don’t do things together, don’t have sex or go on dates. And that’s fine, I don’t want to do those things with him. But I also don’t want to spend another 10 years like this. We sold our house when we moved abroad for his job. We are due to move back to the uk and he wants to buy another house. But I can’t do it. I will be completely trapped and that idea is terrifying.
Do I just get on with it? Can I really leave when things aren’t bad? Is being unhappy really a reason end a marriage? Am I horrible?
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Am I horrible?
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Bee2418 · 13/07/2020 21:12
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