2 weeks ago my husband of 5 years (together 11) left me for someone else.. he packed a bag and left me at 32 weeks pregnant with our 18 month old son and his 16 yr old son from his previous relationship.
I assume he went to her, I don't know but he come back 3 days later and told me I needed to leave the house. I didn't have the energy to fight with him so I packed me and my son a bag and went to my mum's. However I've since reflected and decided that he isn't forcing me out of my home, it's my sons home, everything I need for him and my new baby is there so I went back and told him I won't be going anywhere. I can't afford to fend for myself on maternity leave and so I'll be remaining in the family home until I return to work and I'm able to sell the house and buy one for myself.
He said he'll leave and won't pay the mortgage; I said that's fine, he stands to loose much more than me as his business is tied to our house. He has no support network whatsoever whereas I do so basically he supports me until I'm able to do so myself or we both loose everything.
Am I being completely unreasonable?? I could live with my mum but why should I just leave my home when he's chose to leave me?! I can't pay the bills on mat leave, but why should he just walk out on his responsibilities and live the single life?? I don't care how involved he is in our children's lives when I'm back at work; but until I'm able to do that I think it's his responsibility to support me. Am I just being a bitch??
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He left me for someone else
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PurpleStarz · 10/07/2020 20:42
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