I posted a couple of weeks ago about how my husband was leaving here Well, he went, I've had sporadic text-only contact with him, despite me trying to initiate visits (I know, I know).
So, I've had a funny feeling for the past couple of days, that he's seeing someone else. I called his bluff and asked him if he was, said that I already knew. Sure enough, he is. And to my utter astonishment, when I dared to be angry, out he comes with The Script! He's rewritten our entire marriage in his head in the space of under 2 weeks. Honestly, if I didnt feel so shit, I would have laughed at him. I did call him a walking cliche though.
He still has a load of his shit in the (my) house, I lost my temper telling him it had to go today. He said he couldn't get here tonight, but will do it tomorrow. We've arranged a time.
I am still absolutely heartbroken. Furious, but heartbroken. He was everything to me. And now he's erased what we had in his head. As if it didnt exist. And replaced it with this false narrative. I want to hate him but my heart hurts. This will get better, won't it?
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"The Script"...
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KeeOe · 11/06/2020 19:51
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