I want to split from my abusive husband.
His behaviours include:
Pushing and shoving
Wiping toilet with my clothes
Saying mummy is a bitch to our 2 yr old
Threatening to confiscate passports so I can't go back to visit my parents in my home country
Threatening to fire our nanny so i have to quit my job and watch our baby
Swearing at me so much our baby has started saying fuck off (ok she said it once).
I don't really have any financial issues but I don't want to move out because that's not a good look. But if we stay under the same roof he will fire our nanny to be obstructive and that will mean my job will be in trouble. He will also get difficult. What can I do? I get he has as much right to be there in the home which we own jointly. The police were previously investigating him to coercive control but I told them to pause because of coronavirus and lockdown and it being difficult to manage the consequences of divorce in these circumstances.
Also, how would custody be split in this situation? He would want 50/50 but I'm minded to want 100. Because he's a bastard although he loves our daughter and isn't violent with her. Is that possible to achieve?
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Vickyglitz · 05/06/2020 09:15
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