Hello,
I have come here for some advice and views.
My partner and I have a 9 month old baby and we have split up.
He wants to have her 50/50. He works full time and wants me to drop her off on Thursdays and then he will take her to nursery or a nanny on a Friday then have her the whole weekend every weekend.
I don't work at the moment and luckily don't need to until she is 2.
I am free to take care of her on the Friday. It doesn't sit well with me her going to him to straight to a nursery and I have said I don't want that arrangement.
I feel that she is too young to be moving about so much and then throwing nursery into the mix.
He is a great dad but a very controlling partner which is why I left with the help of a women's charity.
There is so much more to write but I don't want to write an essay and my main question is -
Do you think 50/50 of an infant is fair for
a baby?
It makes me feel sick that he is not taking into account her age and developmental stage but I don't know if I'm being too sensitive.
Thanks for taking the time to read this.
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Brela · 01/06/2020 06:55
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