Will try to keep this brief
Mortgage is £249k
Equity is £60k
Together 11 years, lived together for 8 years married for 3
He is 33 I am 34
His wage is at least £65k (may have had a pay rise) with 10k+ pension
He has 2 children’s savings accounts that were set up when we were together. Roughly 3k in those
My wage is £12k with 3k pension
I have £2k savings
I can obtain a mortgage for £150k
Ex left 10 months ago. He paid half of mortgage up until December then has paid nothing since. I have struggled to keep the house going, the mortgage got into arrears and I’ve had to borrow money to keep on top of the payments. The mortgage is more than my wage so I applied for a D11 maintenance pending suit order in March to force him to pay half of the mortgage. Still awaiting court for this.
Mortgage is £249,000 with £60,000 equity. His wage is roughly £65,000 maybe more as he has regular pay rises and bonuses and mine is £12,800 as I work part time to look after the 2 children. He has a share save scheme and various savings accounts and Isas. No idea what is in any of those. He has a baby on the way in July with his new partner who he lives with in a £250k house
Divorce is at Decree Nisi stage. Ex proposed via solicitor in March that I could have all the equity out of the house (60k) I refused at this stage as I was waiting for the court order for maintenance pending suit and wanted to exchange form E’s. Court order held up due to corona virus so I decided I had no option but to accept his proposal, I put the house on the market 3 weeks ago. He has now changed his mind and wants 20% equity out of the house saying he has debts to pay. I have had an offer on the property of the full asking price which I have accepted. I am relying on the equity in order to move to a house near daughters school. House prices round here are quite high (200k for 3 bed semi) and my lending amount low due to wage. I called the court and they are dealing with decree nisis and absolutes as priority and then other applications as and when. She said to call back in 3/4 weeks to have an update. I don’t have the luxury of this time. What can I do? Would the court accept my request of the whole equity in respect that his earnings are 5 times higher, he lives in a home already (with new partner who’s income matches his) which is of equal value to mine? I can’t afford a solicitor so will be self representing
Any advice please would be fantastic
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Financial split. He’s changed his mind
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Cantsleep22 · 28/05/2020 05:37
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