Hi Everyone. Im reaching out for any advice anyone can give. There is a lot of background story but in an effort to try to keep this post short - I'll only go in to more detail if required... (otherwise I'll be here writing an essay forever!)
Husband has stopped paying mortgage on FMH
I am in talks with bank to get 3 month covid19 payment holiday but thereafter am considering taking out a loan to meet his shortfall.
I live in rented. moved out due to violence. He remains in our house.
He has attempted (badly) suicide twice (allegedly). But more probably a cry for help/attention.
He claims to be depressed due to divorce process, but allegedly is NOT on any meds (despite recent suicide attempt ending at A&E)
He is now implying he intends to run away. Abroad. And leave the house empty. and just go.
HOW do I get divorced.. sell the house... end this marriage.. if he runs away.
he has committed fraud and stolen VAT money. and borrowed from family members to live the high life, yet not paid mortgage in months.
This is an utter train wreck. But I can ONLY pay the mortgage for a limited time before repossession starts.
how do I force sale of house if he has done a runner and absconded.
how do I continue with the divorce if he runs away
do I move back in to the house? And hope he doesn't turn up? (he tried to throw me down the stairs on the day I left)
Im resisting his attempts at email communication at the moment. Because silence seems to be the best response.
But I am scared
Any legal eagles out there who can offer any advice?
I am currently self representing to save some money.. but will re-engage my lawyers prior to Final Hearing (by which time he may be gone)
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Please help... divorce is a train wreck... worried how to keep it moving forwards if husband abandons process
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nosha123 · 28/04/2020 11:32
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