My husband as been constantly accusing me of having affairs he always checks my phone always goes threw my friends messages ! He was intoxicated a week before Xmas & he got my phone again I thought right I’m gonna get your phone whilst u are so pissed u forget u left it downstairs !!! I saw a message from another women sending my husband 💓 all other messeges was deleted but was a voice message saying her whereabouts I kept playing the voice messege as I walked upstairs to him in which he beat me up so bad Iv kicked him out had the worst Xmas ever I had to get friend to get shopping as I could not face goin out as I looked awful. Iv been in a dark place felt so unloved betrayed u name it I have felt it !!! All I want is why after all the accusations & it was him all along!! He blocked me for about 3 weeks because I was too abusive & sending him vile texts which made me feel like he just don’t care about my feelings at all. We have 3 kids we have a mortgage I feel he as thrower it all away I want answers still to this day he ain’t talking why we have ended up this way I want answers because we have kids & he is gonna be in my life until the kids grow up . He as apologised for the beating as for the women sending him messages he would not let me call her to see what he was saying was the truth he said he was gonna do a job for her as he a plumber ?? I’m feeling positive & a lot stronger that I can do everything in my own but I want to know everything I feel like all my feelings he don’t care about yet he making me wait for answers saying I’m not calm enough for him to talk Iv been calm now constantly for 3 weeks
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