Stbxh and I have been separated and living apart 27 months. I know in my heart that what he is doing is emotional abuse and gaslighting but keep doubting myself and feeling like I am making it all up. I really do fee like I am a nervous wreck and at the end of my tether. I am walking on eggshells with him all the time and constantly anxious and just can't see any light at the end of the tunnel.
Whatever I say and do he twists it around to me being a horrible person and not caring about anybody but myself. I love my 3DC more than anything in the world but he is actually starting to convince me that I am a terrible mum and just selfish. I really don't think I am and certainly try my hardest not to be but am staying to wonder.
I'm sorry if this posts doesn't make much sense. I'm not even sure what I want anybody to say I guess I just wanted to write it down and get it off my chest! Thank you if you've read this and sorry if you think I'm just moaning!
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I fee like I am losing my mind
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clpsmum · 18/02/2020 10:42
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