My Stbx left me for another woman two years ago.
I filed an adultery petition which he refused to sign so I had to resubmit papers with unreasonable behaviour(which he didn't need to agree to)
He refused mediation (said he couldn't afford it) so I had to get a solicitor to support the financial application. Again, SBTX delayed form E and was late submitting and it was incomplete. We have had two FDR hearings put back because he will not give information due to finances until last minute and often incomplete.
He refused a pension valuation for his teachers pension so I've had to get an actuary to look into his pension. This apparently takes 26 weeks from when they receive the information and they still haven't had his permission for valuation!
I'm desperate for this to be over. Years of emotional abuse means I have no contact with him but obviously my legal bill is ongoing and the financial outcome won't be big as we don't have that much equity.
Really want some advice on pension expert /actuary. Does anyone know if it really does take 26 weeks to get the report back? Any thoughts really welcome
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Divorce taking so long, Stbx stalling
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Chumpnomore · 02/02/2020 22:06
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